On women, nature’s strangest creatures

So yesterday I decided I’d set up some dating profiles. I never really did this in my twenties, because I had this notion of romantic love which I felt clashed with dating apps. But now I’m in my thirties and after two encounters with women who did not treat me very nicely and subsequent heartbreak, my pair bonding instinct is pretty much broken. I have this theory that getting laid might treat my depression. Perhaps my brain needs to be convinced that I did my job of spreading my genes.

I already have some actual matches. I don’t count the Indonesian and African ladies, because they just want someone for his money, but I have some actual matches with women in the Netherlands too. Nature has been somewhat merciful to me. I’m Caucasian, I still have my hair, I still have all my teeth, I’m not overweight and I’m 186 centimeters tall, it should be achievable to find someone.

But I find women to be strange creatures. The Netherlands is apparently full of blonde women around thirty who are very pretty but nonetheless don’t have boyfriends. What’s stopping them? It’s a mystery to me. Being a woman on a dating app means receiving an avalanche of messages from guys. Are they really that picky?

In all fairness, part of the problem may be that they start to look very interchangeable after a while. They all “love to travel”. The only video game they claim to play is Call of Duty. They love cats. They love to go to restaurants. None of them are openly right wing, but plenty of them are leftist. The stereotypically good looking blonde ones seem to be very ambitious in regards to their career (commonly referred to as “Jewish daycare”). The nerdy looking ones all seem to like anime.

I’m sure you could fall in love with one of them. The reality of online dating however is that it confronts you with the fact that when you put effort into it, as a man you could probably fall in love with half of them. The male brain is just designed to desire to pair-bond with a particular woman and experiences breakup as a trauma, in my case the pair-bonding instinct was so strong that two women made me suicidal during my twenties. Destroy the pair-bonding instinct and what’s left is the seed-spreading instinct underneath.

As you grow older as a man, you just start to realize that it really doesn’t matter that much what a woman is into. As a twenty year old I was pretty sure I wanted a woman who is into heavy metal. Now I don’t care as much. If I find a woman who is into true crime, horror movies, video games, history, goth music, renaissance fairs or urban exploration, there’s probably enough common ground to have sufficient conversation material. I will just put up with the fact that she likes Ru Paul’s drag race or some other nonsense, you just ignore their bullshit.

Strangest still are the specimens who are 36 or older and “plan on having children some day”. Do they comprehend how their own bodies operate? I’m assuming you’re going to want to take at least a year with a guy to make sure he’s the right one to reproduce with. But your fertility curve looks like this:

Your body is already falling apart, that’s why men prefer to have sex with women younger than you. Mother nature doesn’t comprehend you spent the first decade of your fertility window “studying”. Sexual desire is not some kind of blessing we control, it’s a curse that controls us.

Feminists tend to get very upset when they figure out how men experience sex, many of them become repulsed by sex with men altogether. It’s genuinely true that we intuitively experience the act of penetration as degrading, devaluing and humiliating the person who is being penetrated. That’s why we have this strange veneration of virgins. As a man you have to take a conscious effort to overcome this feeling, to have an ultimately satisfying relationship for both partners. We can do this with some effort, but our default programming is: To be penetrated by a penis is to be degraded and defiled.

You can of course as a man decide to ignore the sexual desire you have altogether or try to satiate it with masturbation, but your mind will tell you that failing to have sex makes you a “loser” and you can’t escape the feeling of humiliation and of having failed to achieve your purpose. Sex is simply a curse imposed upon us humans. And the worst part of the curse is of course that we grow attached to the act of having sex, which nature takes away from us again as we age.

What I would of course try to convince any woman I enter a relationship with is as following: Please forget about having children, don’t do it. Asian women are generally smarter than white women, you can tell by the fact that they’re about half as likely to reproduce as white women.

I just feel like illustrating again, why we need to stop having children. Here you can see CO2 concentrations in the atmosphere:

It’s a straight line up. Nothing like this has ever before happened in the history of the human race. We already screwed everything up, at today’s CO2 concentrations. The Earth is already as we speak too warm to save the coral reefs. They’re already dying, they’re being destroyed by heatwaves faster than they can naturally regenerate. The same is effectively true for the amazon rainforest, it’s already suffering droughts that are effectively killing it.

There are already numerous Amazon species in extinction debt. These are species that will die out within decades, even if we still do everything right. If you have just fifty animals left of a species, it can end up with genetic mutations accumulating that condemn it to extinction.

The human population looks like this:

We weigh more than six times as much together as all the wild terrestrial vertebrates. All the world’s lions, bears, mice, rats, kangaroos, elephants, hyenas, polecats, you name it, they weigh less than us. There are 8 billion humans. Our closest relative, the chimpanzee, has 300,000 individuals at most. That’s less than a small Chinese town. There are just 300,000 gorillas, just 120,000 orangutans. There are half a million elephants left, down from 27 million in 1800. There are too many of us and there are not enough of them.

Humans born today won’t have a nice life. I’m just going to ask you to look at India right now. There is no water. There is no electricity. It’s 48 degree Celsius. There is no air conditioning. There are 1.5 billion people living there. Those people won’t stay there. They’re going on the move. If you think real estate prices in the Western world are bad today, wait until your government starts letting the Indians in. You’re going to have Muslims and Hindus fighting each other over who gets to inherit your country.

The insects are dying out, we’re losing 1-2% of insect biomass per year. We depend on them for pollination, as food for bats and birds, for recycling nutrients in ecosystems, for digging through soil and aerating it. The world is running out of copper. We’re running out of fertile topsoil.

Nobody has any idea who’s going to pay off Japan’s national debt. Nobody has any idea who’s going to take care of the babyboomers in the nursing home. Nobody has any idea who’s going to produce food, the average age of Japanese farmers is 67, a third of their farmland will just be abandoned by 2050.

There are tailing dams everywhere, holding back giant piles of toxic sludge. Nobody has a solution, they are ticking time bombs that will eventually just spill toxic sludge all over our farmland and into our rivers. There is extremely virulent bird flu born in our chicken boilers, spreading across the globe, killing off endangered bird species and increasingly killing off mammal species too. Nobody has a solution for this.

There’s microplastics emerging everywhere, as the plastic waste we produce takes decades to turn into microplastics. The microplastics are entering our soils, where they disrupt crop growth, they’re entering the food chain, they’re entering our bodies. They’re even starting to contribute to global warming.

Smart women tend to figure this stuff out on their own and then they become depressed. The ones who haven’t figured it out yet, well, it’s better to explain this stuff to them. Then they can let go of their desire to have children, which saves them a lot of stress.

When you don’t have to worry as a woman about finding a good father for your child, then you can just continue doing what you did in your early twenties, which for most young Western women now seems to be a variety of “situationships” with popular guys who are not willing to commit to them because they want to maintain multiple options.

I really think most young women would be better off just coming to terms with the fact that our way of life is coming to an end. Try to enjoy the time we have left and try to avoid making long-term commitments to the future.